Thursday, May 24, 2007

Countdown...

In 25 hours and 4 minutes I will be done with school for the academic year.

It has been the most enjoyable year I've had in quite a long time. I've met some AMAZING people, we had a terrific basketball season, and the way the community is makes this a terrific place to live.

I am out of town Friday-Monday, then Tuesday-Friday is Bball camp 6am-6pm, then a quiet week that ends with TK's Bachelor party.

After that, June 15th I'm moving into my new Townhouse and we're locked and loaded for the rest of what will be an enjoyable summer.

Hope all is well, keep me updated with how things are going with all of you...(if anyone actually reads this)...

CoachMcCabe@gmail.com

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Count...

In case you're keeping track at home or work...

The total number of female students who have referred directly to me, their need of a tampon is 4...

Thanks...

Monday, May 21, 2007

Greg Oden article

Dear Greg: Don't change who you are

By LZ GrandersonPage 2


I thought Greg Oden was pulling my leg.

Sure, "Switch" was hot for a minute but who actually knows every song by Will Smith? Least of all the guy who is supposed to be the NBA's next great big man? But Oden didn't blink when I asked him to give me a couple of bars of "Summertime," a classic, but Oden was what, 2 years old when it came out?

"Here it is, the groove slightly transformedJust a bit of a break from the norm ..."
"I don't want to go no further, you know, make him mad, copyright his stuff ..." Oden says with a smile.

His admiration of Smith doesn't end there. Not only does Oden own every CD but he also has all of Will Smith's movies and has seen every episode of "The Fresh Prince of Bel Air."
He also watches way too much CBS for a 19-year-old.

To look at Greg Oden -- his towering frame, dark skin, grizzly face -- he fits the stereotypical image of one not to mess with.
But to know Greg Oden, how could you not?
The future lottery pick has this refreshing affinity for some of the corniest things middle America has to offer. There's nothing edgy or hardcore about Will Smith and there isn't anything edgy or hardcore about his biggest fan -- pun intended.
"I wanted to be a dentist when I was younger," Oden says, ironic, considering he recently had 11 cavities filled because of his sweet tooth. "But then I started to get big and realized that my hands were so big, I'd kind of scare the little kids away.
"I just realized that basketball and going to the NBA was a possibility, and that's something that I want to use to better my family and possibly help the world if I can."
You want to help the world, Greg?
Don't change.
Stay the same warm, slightly goofy and totally un-hip person that you are. Love Will Smith, TiVo "The New Adventures of Old Christine," and if you want, wear a fanny pack on road trips.
OK, don't wear the fanny pack.

But do continue to be yourself.

One of the reasons why black men in general, and specifically those in the NBA have an image problem is because too many of us treat street cred as a precious commodity to obtain, as opposed to what it really is -- the byproduct of unfortunate circumstances. The rationale is so perverse that otherwise friendly players will scowl in photo shoots and spin tales about the hustle despite growing up attending private schools in the suburbs or in a loving home with two parents. Listen, regardless of what they will tell you, every black person older than 50 did not march with Dr. King and every black NBA player did not dodge bullets to get to school.

Members of the media will often blindly play along, walking into an interview with the story already written in their heads because, "Hey, it's a black ballplayer, of course he had it rough." They will edit video footage to show players looking menacing on the court and yelling toward the heavens while a voiceover describes them as a "beast" or "monster" over a hip-hop beat. They will leave clips of a smiling Greg Oden on the cutting room floor because it doesn't fit the theme they are going for. They will briefly mention how the death of his best friend, Travis Smith, affected his life because he died in an automobile accident but had it been a gang-related death it would have been the dramatic lead. I've already had an exchange with someone in the media wondering how Oden's love of Will Smith will affect his street cred. All I kept thinking was, "Greg Oden grew up in Terre Haute, Ind. How much street cred can he have?"

It doesn't help that shoe companies prefer their basketball players black, intimidating and with a high level of street appeal. It makes it easier to market their products to consumers who wear "Stop Snitchin'" T-shirts and the people who inspire them. This explains why the past two NBA MVPs -- Steve Nash and Dirk Nowitzki -- don't have their own shoe but Carmelo Anthony and Tracy McGrady do. All are talented players but obviously the who-gets-what decisions are not based solely on wins. A shame considering there are tons of 30-something gym rats who would probably love to buy a Nash shoe if for no other reason than they can identify with him.
And there are plenty of young, black men who identify with Greg Oden. Not everyone is edgy, or hardcore, or from the streets. Some are warm, slightly goofy and totally un-hip, and they need someone they can relate to as well.
You can't control what people think about you but you can control what you think about yourself.
Very soon Greg Oden will be presented with that opportunity to help the world. But it won't come from writing a check or volunteering for a charity. It will come from his willingness to continue to say "Two and a Half Men" is his favorite TV show and "Parents Just Don't Understand" is the greatest rap song ever recorded.

Corny? Yes. But it's important to remember the street is not the only place where cred comes from.

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Seniors last day...

The seniors last school day is today, and let me tell you how big of a circus it has been...(I won't, I'll spare you the details)...

It brings up the question...after behaving, being somewhat respectful the entire year...

What kind of high does someone get by being completely unruly the last day of school and not obeying any orders?

I don't quite understand that...

Monday, May 14, 2007

End of School year...

The weather is warming up, and thank goodness, the end of the academic year is right around the corner.

Our seniors get out Wednesday, while we go until the 25th. It should be a good summer.

I am coaching an AAU team, we will compete various weekends during the summer months.

Also, I'm moving into a new place on June 15th, looking forward to that.

Hope all is well with everyone else, please keep me updated on what you're doing...

CoachMcCabe@gmail.com